In other words he has no plan for the future. He's living in the moment. It's fun to stay in a five star hotel; it doesn't mean you're going to live there. Read A Life Of Love.
This can be confusing because technically men fall in love when they give. The difference is a man who's buying you gives of himself. He's not keeping his options open.
Men commit when they sign papers. There's a big difference between a man who pays your rent and one who marries you.
The act of commitment; of having a plan and building together keeps you together. Without a purpose he will eventually lose interest, because even though people like going to Disneyland nobody lives there. Look inside Dating Advice For Alpha Women.
As a woman it's up to you to set the bar by what you require. Men want to marry you because they inherently know your requirements make them better men.
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