When a guy likes you on a first date he will be excited and enthusiastic. At that moment he will have something that every guy needs to have if he's going to make it to the finish line: momentum.
If you turn down or try to change his plan to see you again by telling him your busy until maybe next week for example he will lose momentum and enthusiasm for you because you're unavailable.
If you have a legitimate reason for not being available that's fine. Just let him know what it is and when you will be available.
Being unavailable can work on feminine energy men and they will continue to chase you because they're unconsciously not looking for anything serious, but a masculine energy man will move on to greener pastures.
If you're serious about being with a man this year, it's the little things you might not see that will make the difference.
The women who consult with me while they're dating start to see what they've always done and make changes that work. It's exciting for them and for me. Let me know if you have questions.
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