The question is are you looking to build something with someone or are you hooking up? There's no right or wrong answer the difference is; for a man having intercourse with you right away will get in the way of him knowing you as a human being.
I appreciate your confidence in your body and that men will push and beg for sex in the moment. The challenge is men will beg for sex and when they get it before they know you it keeps them from falling on love.
It's a simple equation. Anticipation outranks consummation. Men fall in love with the vision they have for you. They fall in love with virtue. They know if they can have sex with you right away so can another guy. Men marry for seemingly unknown reasons however I will tell you one right now. They marry for loyalty... Read A Life Of Love.
I encourage you to read to get more knowledge about men and also to know especially as a young woman how easy it is to get bonded by having intercourse with a guy you don't know as a human being. With that said I will leave you with this. The faster you have sex the more you distract from the interest in humanity. Making love is for people who know each other.
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