Perspective is important however at some point in order to get it we have to be in the water. It comes down to we can't see ourselves we have to be reflected. This is where the water comes in.
Successful dating is about getting clearer: about not repeating lessons already learned and getting into new territory.
We always pick the right wrong person until we get the lesson, however once we get the lesson we're free to have new experiences.
That's the beauty of being in the water it allows us to refresh and clear our heads and experience a new expression of love.
Take your time but please whether it's from me or someone else get coaching while you're dating.
This is the time we can make the most changes and get different results.
We learn by dating even the "wrong" person on the way to the right. I call it "rehearsal dating." It's where we get our steps right and become graceful. Where we stop slam dancing and learn to waltz.
It's not only the destination that makes us happy but knowing we're on the right path. The best way is to ask questions and get coaching.
P.S. Read A Life of Love and Dating Advice for Alpha Women.
P.P.S. For coaching questions call 310-736-5973.