you've been taught unconsciously like I have to equate longing and pain with
love. Usually the chemistry and attraction are so strong they overwhelm you and
you may feel you have no choice. This is a very important moment in your life.
The same moment that changed mine forever. Watch the video link below.
Video link: Why Hot relationships Don't Last
If you want to stop choosing unavailable men read A Life Of Love and stop
placing all your value on chemistry and attraction with your eyes Ask yourself
the next question after you have chemistry with someone and use your ears. Are
we compatible? Meaning if he's married that means we're incompatible regardless
of chemistry. If he lives thousands of miles away etc. Remember it's not
personal it's a fact. What ever the issue is that makes him unavailable run it
through the filter of compatibility and then decide.
You may say that's great James but its too late now I'm stuck on this guy
what do I do now? Start dating other guys and give someone a chance to steal you
away from him. Listen for a better deal. Complaining about unavailable men won't
do it. Continuing to have sex with unavailable men won't do it. Read A Life Of
The appeal may still be too strong for you and if you're willing to pay the
price have at it. You might not be done yet. I certainly wasn't for a long time.
Let go or be dragged... If you've had enough let your actions show it. Make a
positive decision followed by action or inaction as soon as possible.
Watch Chemistry To Commitment. Find out how much chemistry is enough.
Evaluate honestly if you're compatible and negotiate rather than being driven by
intimidation or seduction. It's simple it's just not easy. Having spent a long
time with unavailable people I get where you're at; great choices and great guys
are waiting for you when you stop picking painfully unavailable men.
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