The key word is feeling. All men are looking for is feelings: good or bad. It gives them a barometer to work with. Once a man can experience your feelings he can adjust and care about them. The safest thing you can do is be vulnerable. This gives you an honest assessment of how you feel.
There are basically only two feelings. Feels good and doesn't feel good. Practice sharing these two with men. The true vulnerable part is letting go of the outcome i.e. control.
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Vulnerability gets a bad rap because people think it means weakness or not taking care of yourself. However without it a man can never get to know you and you can never be yourself. Men are looking for a woman who can feel. It awakens their masculine energy and inspires them to care for you. It feels good.
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