When you want to know if a man is in love with you, it doesn’t matter what he says. It matters what he does.
For men love is a verb and when he’s in love with you, he takes action.
With that in mind, here are three actions that are clear signs he’s in love with you.
1. Momentum.
Men are all about momentum. From the moment he meets you and gets your number, if he calls you right away and makes an effort to see you, he’s on his way to being in love with you.
If he can wait a few weeks to see you, or sees you once and then waits for another month, he doesn’t have momentum and he’s wasting your time.
The first thing to look for is, does he have momentum.
2. Escalation.
Lots of guys start out fast. They want to see you all the time and then suddenly vanish.
A guy who’s falling in love with you, wants to build something with you.
This means he wants to do a variety of things with you. He wants you to meet his friends, his family etc. you feel he’s including you in his life.
Escalation means he’s not just dating and having sex with you. He’s building a life with you and adding complexity to what you do together.
3. Responsibility.
When a man falls in love with you he suddenly wants to give up his freedom that he values so highly, and be responsible for you.
This simply means he takes your feelings into account and there are no sudden disappearing acts. He makes and keeps agreements with you without hesitation.
When a man falls in love with you being in a relationship is his idea. He asks you to be exclusive because he doesn’t want to lose you. He has momentum and he’s goal oriented. The goal is to be with you.
He invites you into his life and you feel the relationship is escalating. You sense, he cares about how you feel and he welcomes the responsibility to make long-range plans with you. These are the signs, and this is how to tell a man’s in love with you.
James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after dating and relationship coach for STRONG women based in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love. If you’re a smart woman struggling to achieve relationship success, check out the treasure trove of men’s secrets to fall in love in Dating Advice for Alpha Women.
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