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by James Hanrahan

What are the biggest turn ons for men?

Some will lead you to believe that to turn your man on is about technique. Giving a great blowjob will keep him hopelessly infatuated with you. Now I’m not saying good technique doesn’t hurt, I’m just saying that the definition of a man being turned on happens way outside of the bedroom.

Being turned on happens in a man’s head. Here are three ways to turn a man on that even he is not aware of. No bedroom technique required.

1. Say yes. When he asks you to do something say yes. When he asks you to go somewhere, say yes. Men are turned on by the sound of yes. Once he senses you’re happy to be with him the lights go on.

He starts to imagine all the possibilities of what being with you could be like. And yes, his mind is wandering into what it would be like to have sex with you. That’s because you’ve been saying yes, and that’s a good thing.

2. Follow him. He grabs your hand and wants to escort you across the street, do it. He directs you to go upstairs, downstairs, around the corner, down the street, it doesn’t matter follow him.

When a man senses you’re willing to follow him, it turns him on. He starts to get the feeling that he could take care of you. Men want to lead, when you’re willing to follow it’s a major turn on.

3. Admire him. “OK James now you’ve gone too far. You want me to admire him.” Only if you’re interested in turning him on. If you want to remain friends feel free to skip this step.

Admiration for a man is way easier than it sounds. It will come naturally with a man you truly like. Admiration simply means you appreciate his sense of humor, his intelligence, his productivity in the world. And here is the key, you let him know that you do.

The biggest turn on for a man as simple as this sounds is, “Wow she really likes me.” You may think this happens all the time but I assure you it doesn’t. Men live in a desert of lack of recognition. Adoration is an oasis for them.

Men follow a simple formula, when you say yes to them, it gets them thinking what’s possible. When you follow them, it get them thinking they can take care of you. When you admire them, it ignites a noble quality that makes them want to be better men.

It depends what your definition of turning a man on is. If you want to seduce him, sexual prowess will definitely work. If you want him to fall in love with you. Then, say yes, follow him and admire him.

If you’re an Alpha woman struggling to achieve relationship success, check out the treasure trove of information in Dating Advice for Alpha Women.

James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after dating and relationship coach for STRONG women based in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love.

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