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By James Hanrahan

How To Make A Guy Totally Infatuated With You

Turning him on is just the beginning…
If you’ve ever wondered what makes a guy infatuated with you, it’s a good point to consider.
Chemistry is the foundation of any relationship and we live too long to be without it. This is especially true for men as well as you.
Men are visual, the moment they lay their eyes on you they instantly know if they’re infatuated with you or not.
With that in mind here are three points to consider that make men infatuated with you.
1. Get in his eyes.
Infatuation starts with eye contact. The eyes are the windows to the soul and when you open them a man can fall deeply in love with you.
Men are looking for a connection. When you make eye contact and smile at him he sees it as an invitation to connect with you.
Many of my clients tell me that when they’re attracted to a guy they don’t look at him. This is obviously counterproductive. It doesn’t work with a gentleman. Drunks and players will approach you without eye contact, gentleman will look for a signal from you.
Looking in the eyes of a man will put you miles ahead of other women. Try it and see the results.
2. Let him in your ears.
Infatuation for you as a woman is important. And the way to get it is to let him get into your ears.
Listen to what he has to say, find out what he’s doing in his life, and what if any future plans he has for you

A man with a plan becomes more and more attractive over time.
When a man is infatuated with you he will tell you everything you need to hear. If you don’t hear things that sound good, he’s not infatuated with you and it’s time to move on.
3. Get into his heart.
You want to move a man. You do this by getting into his heart. Men are attracted to you when it’s easy to be with you. When they sense you respect them and want to know what they think.
This is the subtlety that’s often missed with infatuation. Men are not just looking at you there looking through you. They intuitively know if you’re right for them. They do this by gauging if they’re comfortable with you. If it’s a fun and playful experience that leads to something more serious.
It starts when you look him in the eyes. It sparks when he begins a conversation with you.
When he’s talking listen carefully. Men will tell you everything you need to hear right from the beginning.
When you’re able to get to his heart you’re on your way to building something that’s bigger than the initial infatuation. A solid man is a joy to be with.
This is just the beginning of your adventure together. Get in his eyes, listen with your ears and you’ll unlock his heart. Men want to fall in love with you its what they’re looking for.
James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after relationship coach for STRONG women based in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love. If you’re a smart woman struggling to achieve relationship success, check out the treasure trove of information in Dating Advice For Alpha Women.


By James Hanrahan

How To Flirt With Men 3 Secrets Of Flirting Revealed

Italian men, French men , Latin men. Who are the best flirters?
When you think of master flirters many people think of Italian men. And this is true they are good, but it’s also true that they live with their moms.

Then there are French men. French men are good, but they’re often short. But, maybe living with your mom and being short are assets that you need to be a master flirter.

If you asked me who the master flirters on this planet are. You need to look no further then the ones who live with their mom and are short; babies. Babies are masterful flirters, they know how to attract anyone. They do it in 3 very simple ways.

1. Happiness; babies understand how attractive having a base line of being happy is, but what really makes them master flirters is they know how to show an increase in their pleasure when they see you.
2. Eye contact: babies are masters of eye contact. When they see you they make and keep eye contact with you effortlessly. How do they do it? They do it by being genuinely curious about you.
3.Smiling; babies know that when you smile the world smiles with you. Their smiles are contagious and have an element of fearless risk taking that is very attractive.
If you want to be a master flirter it’s quite simple. Start with a baseline of happiness and be pleased to see someone. Make eye contact and be curious about them. Smile with an openness that attracts people in.

In other words if you want to be a master flirter, you don’t need to be Italian, French or Latin, just act like a baby.

If you’re a smart woman struggling to achieve relationship success, check out the treasure trove of information in A Life of Love.

James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after dating and relationship coach for SMART women based in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love.


How To Make A Guy Totally Infatuated With You
How To Flirt With Men 3 Secrets Of Flirting Revealed