3 Things Men Want More Than Sex
You might think men want nothing more than sex. While, it is certainly often in their minds, there are three things that are more valuable to men than sex.
In order for a man to fall in love with you, he will unknowingly even to him be looking for these 3 things.
With that in mind, here are the 3 things men want more than sex. I hope these will inspire you to understand the men you date and what men really want when they fall in love with you.
1. Acceptance.
Men want acceptance for who they are right now. Not, who they are going to be in 5 or 10 years but for who they are in this moment.
We all want acceptance but, for men, it is the cornerstone of any long-term relationship.
A man knows that if you do not like his job, his friends, the way he spends his free time, etc. that in the long run, he will have no chance with you.
There’s a long-standing joke that when a man sees his woman as she’s walking down the aisle, he says she looks amazing I hope she never changes.
When a woman sees her man walking down the aisle, she says to herself, I can change him.
There’s a lot of truth in this joke. Men don’t change. If you can accept that, you’re on your way to really have a great man for the rest of your life. Because you already truly like him the way he is.
2. Appreciation.
Most good men follow a very simple equation. When you appreciate what they already do, they will do more.
Men fall in love when they give. They are literally looking for ways to give to you. However, if they get the impression that you don’t appreciate it, or they can’t make you happy, they will give up.
Appreciating what he already does may be very hard for you to do. Because, frankly, some men don’t do much. However, if you can simply start by appreciating the little things they already do, I assure you they will do more, and thank you for it!
3. Admiration.
Now, you may be saying, you’ve gone too far, admiration? Yes, admiration.
Admiration, in this context simply means you admire some aspect of him. Perhaps, it’s his sense of humor, or his work ethic, or the way he treats his family and friends. The key here is to find some aspect that you do admire about him and tell him.
Admiration for a man goes hand-in-hand with respect. Men know that a woman most often can only fall in love with a man she respects.
If you’re with a man that for any reason you don’t respect, please let him go. You only be hurting yourself and him in the long run.
However if you do respect him, the greatest gift you can give a man is to tell him, I respect you.
Respect, inspires a man to be a better man.
You have all the cards to be with the man you want.
The 3 keys to remember are acceptance, appreciation, and admiration.
When you accept a man the way he is right now. You are building a strong foundation for a long-term relationship.
When you appreciate what he’s already doing. when he gets the sense that he can make you happy. He will feel that he can win with you and it will inspire him to no end.
When you admire and respect a man, you give him the confidence to be his best self. Men choose a woman for the long-term by the way he feels when he’s with you.
It’s a simple equation to understanding what good men want. Acceptance, appreciation, and admiration. When you give them to a man, he will fall deeply in love with you.
James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after relationship coach for STRONG women based in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love. If you’re a smart woman struggling to achieve relationship success, I’d love to connect. Here’s my calendar link to make finding time easy.
