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By James Hanrahan

How To Make A Guy Totally Infatuated With You

Turning him on is just the beginning…
If you’ve ever wondered what makes a guy infatuated with you, it’s a good point to consider.
Chemistry is the foundation of any relationship and we live too long to be without it. This is especially true for men as well as you.
Men are visual, the moment they lay their eyes on you they instantly know if they’re infatuated with you or not.
With that in mind here are three points to consider that make men infatuated with you.
1. Get in his eyes.
Infatuation starts with eye contact. The eyes are the windows to the soul and when you open them a man can fall deeply in love with you.
Men are looking for a connection. When you make eye contact and smile at him he sees it as an invitation to connect with you.
Many of my clients tell me that when they’re attracted to a guy they don’t look at him. This is obviously counterproductive. It doesn’t work with a gentleman. Drunks and players will approach you without eye contact, gentleman will look for a signal from you.
Looking in the eyes of a man will put you miles ahead of other women. Try it and see the results.
2. Let him in your ears.
Infatuation for you as a woman is important. And the way to get it is to let him get into your ears.
Listen to what he has to say, find out what he’s doing in his life, and what if any future plans he has for you

A man with a plan becomes more and more attractive over time.
When a man is infatuated with you he will tell you everything you need to hear. If you don’t hear things that sound good, he’s not infatuated with you and it’s time to move on.
3. Get into his heart.
You want to move a man. You do this by getting into his heart. Men are attracted to you when it’s easy to be with you. When they sense you respect them and want to know what they think.
This is the subtlety that’s often missed with infatuation. Men are not just looking at you there looking through you. They intuitively know if you’re right for them. They do this by gauging if they’re comfortable with you. If it’s a fun and playful experience that leads to something more serious.
It starts when you look him in the eyes. It sparks when he begins a conversation with you.
When he’s talking listen carefully. Men will tell you everything you need to hear right from the beginning.
When you’re able to get to his heart you’re on your way to building something that’s bigger than the initial infatuation. A solid man is a joy to be with.
This is just the beginning of your adventure together. Get in his eyes, listen with your ears and you’ll unlock his heart. Men want to fall in love with you its what they’re looking for.
James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after relationship coach for STRONG women based in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love. If you’re a smart woman struggling to achieve relationship success, check out the treasure trove of information in Dating Advice For Alpha Women.


By James Hanrahan

How To Turn A Guy On Without EVEN Trying

What are the biggest turn ons for men?

Some will lead you to believe that to turn your man on is about technique. Giving a great blowjob will keep him hopelessly infatuated with you. Now I’m not saying good technique doesn’t hurt, I’m just saying that the definition of a man being turned on happens way outside of the bedroom.

Being turned on happens in a man’s head. Here are three ways to turn a man on that even he is not aware of. No bedroom technique required.

1. Say yes. When he asks you to do something say yes. When he asks you to go somewhere, say yes. Men are turned on by the sound of yes. Once he senses you’re happy to be with him the lights go on.

He starts to imagine all the possibilities of what being with you could be like. And yes, his mind is wandering into what it would be like to have sex with you. That’s because you’ve been saying yes, and that’s a good thing.

2. Follow him. He grabs your hand and wants to escort you across the street, do it. He directs you to go upstairs, downstairs, around the corner, down the street, it doesn’t matter follow him.

When a man senses you’re willing to follow him, it turns him on. He starts to get the feeling that he could take care of you. Men want to lead, when you’re willing to follow it’s a major turn on.

3. Admire him. “OK James now you’ve gone too far. You want me to admire him.” Only if you’re interested in turning him on. If you want to remain friends feel free to skip this step.

Admiration for a man is way easier than it sounds. It will come naturally with a man you truly like. Admiration simply means you appreciate his sense of humor, his intelligence, his productivity in the world. And here is the key, you let him know that you do.

The biggest turn on for a man as simple as this sounds is, “Wow she really likes me.” You may think this happens all the time but I assure you it doesn’t. Men live in a desert of lack of recognition. Adoration is an oasis for them.

Men follow a simple formula, when you say yes to them, it gets them thinking what’s possible. When you follow them, it get them thinking they can take care of you. When you admire them, it ignites a noble quality that makes them want to be better men.

It depends what your definition of turning a man on is. If you want to seduce him, sexual prowess will definitely work. If you want him to fall in love with you. Then, say yes, follow him and admire him.

If you’re an Alpha woman struggling to achieve relationship success, check out the treasure trove of information in Dating Advice for Alpha Women.

James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after dating and relationship coach for STRONG women based in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love.

How To Make A Guy Totally Infatuated With You
How To Turn A Guy On Without EVEN Trying