What Men Are Looking For When They CHECK You Out
Men are always checking you out. Yes checking out your legs, your hair, your body, your eyes. What may surprise you more, is they are checking out your energy.
You’re energy is always showing and it’s giving off signals that you’re probably not even aware of. Some of these signals are attracting men and some aren’t.
It only takes an instant for men to decide they’re attracted to you. You make think that’s superficial but men are taking in far more information than you realize.
Once they say to themselves “yes I’m attracted to her.”The next question they ask themselves is “I wonder if she’s available.”
They decide this by seeing if you look approachable or not.
They take you in checking to see if you’re in your feminine or masculine energy. You may wonder what does that look like to a man?
If you’re in your femininity your appear receptive and available to be approached. This is demonstrated by your smile and eye contact.
If he doesn’t see this signal he will decide you’re in your masculinity at the moment, focused on your business in the world. Doing your best to compete and control in your environment just like he does.
Men can tell just by looking at you how you’re coming across energetically and whether they’re going to be able to win with you or not. Men are not fond of losing or wasting time. If you’re not available they move on.
Your smile and your eye contact are your invitation to a man. They allow him to breathe in the fresh air of your femininity in a busy world. They allow him to stop for a moment to consider what’s really important; our relationships.
Men are looking for a yes in a sea of no’s. Yes, men are checking you out, and the real reason they are, beyond the superficial is, to see if you’re available.
The next time you see a guy checking you out that you like. Give him a devilish smile and watch the world change right before your eyes.
James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after dating and relationship coach for STRONG women based in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love. If you’re a smart woman struggling to achieve relationship success, check out the treasure trove of men’s secrets in Dating Advice for Alpha Women.