The REAL Reason Why Men Suddenly Disappear On You Solution
When you first met him, he could do no wrong. Now he’s your boyfriend or at the very least, soon to be.
Unfortunately along with this title comes the real reason why a guy suddenly disappears.
It’s subtle, and you’re probably not even aware you’re doing it, because you just want him to do better.
This is understandable, however it’s all in how you do it. Let’s look at why he disappears, and the solution on how to change it.
!. Obligation.
To put it simply, obligation is not attractive.
When a man feels obligated to spend time you, have sex with you, or give you affection because he’s your boyfriend and should be doing those things, he’s on the way to disappearing.
Is there anything wrong with wanting those things? Of course not. it’s just that obligation is not the way to get them.
Here’s a better way to get them. It’s the very way you got them in the first place.
2. Attraction.
When a man feels the weight of obligation he suddenly wants space. The moment he has space he remembers he’s attracted to you.
For a man attraction happens because it’s fun to be with you, just like when you met him.
The ironic things is once he’s attracted to you, he’ll do anything for you. Just like in the beginning. Why? Because it’s his idea.
3. The tipping point.
Before a man disappears, he will ask himself. “Am I obligated to be in this relationship or am I attracted to her?”
Attraction happens naturally when you remove obligation from the equation. He will suddenly remember why he likes you, and want to do things with you.
If you have chemistry and connection, you already have something magical. The tipping point works in your favor when you allow attraction to guide your relationship. Attraction is the solution at your finger tips, just like when you first met.
James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after dating and relationship coach for STRONG women based in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love. If you’re a smart woman struggling to achieve relationship success, check out the treasure trove of men’s secrets in Dating Advice for Alpha Women.
